Based on marriage research by Professor John Gottman. www.gottman.com

HOW DOES YOUR RELATIONSHIP ADD UP?

The following questionnaire is designed to test whether there is enough positive interaction in your marriage. Score your responses to each of the statements from one to five - one for strongly disagree, two for disagree, three for neutral, four for
agree and five for strongly agree.

 

I sometimes get ignored when I need attention the most

My partner usually doesn't have a clue about what I am feeling

I often have difficulty getting a meaningful conversation going with my partner


I get mad when I don't get the attention I need from my partner

I often find myself becoming irritable with my partner

I often feel irritated that my partner isn't on my side


I have trouble getting my partner to listen to me


I find it difficult to get my partner to open up to me

I have trouble getting my partner to talk to me

 



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